Hi WITCHES,
This February, I proudly became the third witch, I was asked about my roots, my inspirations, and the remarkable women who have influenced my journey. I was asked about my origins, inspirations, and the incredible women who have guided me on this path. Join me on this journey as I share my intentions and the magic that fuels my spirit. Together let’s honour the power of womanhood leading us into the month of March. 
Who are you, and what do you do?
💜I am Lucilia but everyone calls me Lucy. It is nice to meet you all!!! I was born in Portugal, I travelled back & forth as a young person and lived there a few years: who I truly am: 🇵🇹
💜Canada is where I have lived most of my life but Portugal is my roots, shaped who I am, gave me farming tips, gardening, plant medicine and so much more.
💜I love nature, the moon, I feel
most connected at night among the stars and dark clouds! That is when all my magick comes alive and I stand in solitude.
💜I studied Child and Youth Care at York University and have worked front line work in crisis intervention for most of my career, today I work within schools & am a psychotherapist!
Tell us about what you do for a living, as much as you want to share.
🥀I work as a Child and Youth Practitioner, which I have been doing for the last 35 years. I work with children and youth who are struggling with social economics, mental health, addictions, human trafficking and let’s leave it here!
🥀 As you can only imagine I have a difficult job and try to balance things through creativity!
🥀In 2019 I started a blog which led to my Etsy shop: https://journeywithspirit72.etsy.com
🥀I have been making handmade cards, dried- flowers bouquets, besom floral brooms, spell jars, bath-salts, spell jar necklaces, smouldering sticks to cleanse space, scented candles, antique teacup candles, and many other spiritual tools.
🥀 I love to share wisdom, knowledge, help others, be creative, have fun and always be grateful for all life experiences! I have had a great blessing in being able to connect with our young people and make a difference in their daily lives! This is a small part of my life journey!
We think you’re a bad-ass. What makes you feel strong?
My independence and resilience are my greatest strengths, deeply rooted in the legacy of my mother and grandmother. While I have certainly received guidance from the men in my life, it is the women in my lineage who have faced and triumphed over countless challenges that inspire me the most. Leaving home at a young age was difficult, but the strength and resilience passed down from these remarkable women have empowered me to overcome my own obstacles. I take immense pride in their stories and lessons, sharing that empowerment with others, as the strength I possess is a reflection of the incredible women who have shaped my world.
What and/or who inspires you?
🦋🏹My nephews & nieces & children & teens are my inspiration, my grounding and accountability.
🦋🏹Children are nature as they see things through purity, innocence, and acceptance! It is the greatest joy and honour that you get, if you were blessed with children.
🦋🏹Too many take this for granted and are not tender with their children! They are the light of this universe of whom you will always find the beautiful parts of your soul! Please be kind to your precious children always!!!
🦋🏹Universe bring light & much love to the precious souls of children, grant them all the happiness & joy in the energetic fields,has to offer and bring them the mind of a genius but the heart of an angel! I wish upon the moonlight, stars, sun and the energetic fields to protect our children daily through all of our connections and beautiful energy!!! #kindliving #kindnessismagic #childrenseemagic
What has been your biggest lesson in business?
🪬It is essential to value your expertise and establish clear boundaries in both your psychotherapy and Etsy businesses, ensuring you do not undervalue your services.
🪬In the helping profession, it is common to be taken for granted; therefore, it is crucial to assert your worth and not confuse kindness with vulnerability.
🪬Seek advice from experienced business owners, as collaboration and shared knowledge can provide valuable insights and support.
What has been your biggest lesson in life?
🦅Childhood traumas often arise because parenting lacks a universal guidebook, leading to a journey filled with uncertainty and mistakes.
🦅Each generation faces its own unique challenges, and for those of us raised in a more traditional environment, strict discipline was the norm. This upbringing can leave lasting impressions that shape our perspectives and interactions. 🦅Reflecting on my experiences from childhood to my current work with young people, it becomes clear that we often overlook the importance of teaching essential life skills such as balance, grounding, and mindfulness. These practices are crucial for personal healing and spiritual growth, enabling individuals to connect with their true selves and cultivate compassion in their relationships with others. – Ultimately, it’s vital to recognize that our personal stories, including the struggles we face, are not the fault of others. Embracing this understanding can be transformative, allowing us to take ownership of our narratives and approach life with a sense of lightness and purpose. By doing so, we can positively influence those around us and contribute to a more compassionate world.
Where do you find moments of joy?
🌲Walking through the forest brings me immense joy, as I feel a deep connection with the animals that inhabit it. Their energy resonates with me, providing a sense of healing and tranquility that is hard to find elsewhere. Each encounter with these creatures reminds me of the beauty of nature and the importance of nurturing our bond with the environment. 🌲Spending time with my nieces and nephews is a source of pure happiness. Their laughter and playful spirit allow me to reconnect with my own childhood, bringing out a sense of silliness and joy that is often lost in adulthood. I cherish these moments, as they not only inspire me to be a positive influence in their lives but also fill my heart with warmth and love.
🌲Children and animals are truly the healers of our world, serving as a bridge to our past and a reminder of the innocence we often overlook. 🌲Their laughter and stories have a magical quality that can touch our souls, offering a unique form of healing that is both profound and uplifting. It is essential to honor and protect these gifts, ensuring that we treat them with kindness and respect, as they enrich our lives in ways we may not always recognize.
What do you do to feel empowered?
🧿Embracing my identity as a woman fuels my strength, as we have historically faced numerous challenges to be recognized as equal citizens. Despite ongoing societal perceptions that often diminish our status, I find resilience in my physical, mental, and spiritual presence. The world may frequently oppose us, but I stand firm in my belief that our struggles are a testament to our power.
🧿The fight for recognition and respect often places women in the position of having to advocate for ourselves, as we are too often objectified. I choose to empower myself through acts of compassion, forgiveness, and love, while also challenging the systems that perpetuate inequality. Each day presents an opportunity to confront these injustices, reinforcing my commitment to feminism and the belief that every woman embodies strength and divinity. 🧿As a woman, I embrace the roles of a feminist, a goddess, and a warrior, recognizing that the daily battles we face are part of our collective journey. My empowerment is not just a personal endeavor; it is deeply rooted in the support of my community. Together, we uplift one another, fighting for our rights and dignity, and celebrating the unique strength that comes from our shared experiences.
What still scares you?
🦅I consciously choose not to succumb to fear, as I understand its potential to control and manipulate us. With my background in psychology, I recognize fear as a tool that can be wielded against individuals, and I strive to resist its influence in my life. By doing so, I empower myself to navigate challenges with resilience and strength.
🦅My commitment to living fearlessly stems from a deep appreciation for the journey of life. I believe that each moment is precious and should be embraced with joy rather than apprehension. By focusing on the beauty and opportunities that life presents, I cultivate a mindset that prioritizes positivity and growth over fear.
Where do you see yourself 20 years from now?
In 20 years, at the age of 72, I envision myself savoring the final chapters of my life, perhaps lounging on a beach in retirement. I might be immersed in writing a book, letting each day unfold and shape my experiences. Embracing the journey ahead, I look forward to whatever adventures await me.
What’s the best part of your day?
The highlight of my day comes in the evening when I can retreat to my office, surrounded by my creative space. It’s the perfect time for tarot readings, crafting spell jars, or indulging in creative writing. Writing letters during this tranquil period grounds me, restores my balance, and fills me with a sense of peace. As the day winds down and the world quiets, I find solace in this solitude, allowing my creativity to flourish.
What advice do you have for anyone scared to step onto a new path, or for life in general for a past you?
Embrace the journey of life by daring to explore paths that nurture rather than harm you. Choosing a constructive route can lead to a fulfilling and holistic existence, while destructive choices may result in hardship. Commit to personal growth, whether that means juggling multiple jobs, returning to school, or investing in your well-being. Remember, stagnation occurs only when you allow it; take responsibility for your own transformation. Engage in the necessary self-reflection and stop placing blame on others, as true power for change lies within you. Although the process may be challenging, the rewards are profound, ultimately leading to a more peaceful and inspiring life.
In this sacred moment, I stand in my prepared space, holding a white candle that symbolizes the returning light and the dormant potential within the Earth and myself. As I light the candle, I visualize Brigid’s illuminating flame guiding me toward growth and renewal. The bowl of snowdrops on my altar serves as a reminder of the emerging life around me. With Brigid’s Cross nearby, I invoke her protection and blessings for my home. Offering milk and honey, I express my gratitude for the abundance of the new season. I write my intentions clearly, passing them through the candle’s flame to empower them with Brigid’s light. In meditation, I embrace the energies of Imbolc, welcoming strength, clarity, and renewal. 🌱✨ #ImbolcRitual #Brigid #Renewal
I hope you enjoyed getting to know who I am through all the moments that inspire me each day, bless be!
With Love,
JourneywithSpirit
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